A Target employee was caught on camera performing an act of kindness for an elderly customer. Sarah Owen Bigler, 35, happened to be waiting in line at Target when 19-year-old Ishmael Gilbert was working the cash register in Glendale, Indiana.
Bigler was with her two young children and in a hurry to check out. There was an elderly customer in front of her in the line who wanted to pay for her items individually. Most people would be frustrated, but Gilbert patiently assisted the woman with counting her change. Bigler was so moved by the scene she snapped a photo and posted it to Facebook.
Her post explained the scene at Target:
Yesterday Matt was sick. I picked up Archie from the sitter and Eloise from school and decided to run to Target for a few things. I had hoped to be in and out quickly.
I found a line with just one person ahead of me and began organizing my items on the conveyor. After placing my items, I look up to see that the person ahead of me was an elderly woman. She was paying for her items with change and wanted to purchase each separately. Part of me, the part that had a long day at work, the part of me who had a 1 1/2 year old having a melt down in the cart, the part that had set an unnecessary timeline for Target and getting home, was frustrated with this woman and the inconvenience she had placed on me.
BUT then I watched the young employee with this woman. I watched him help her count her change, ever so tenderly taking it from her shaking hands. I listened to him repeatedly saying “yes, mam” to her. When she asked if she had enough to buy a reusable bag, he told her she did and went two lines over to get one for her and then repackaged her items. Never once did this employee huff, gruff or roll his eyes. He was nothing but patient and kind.
As I was watching him, I saw that Eloise was too. She was standing next to the woman, watching the employee count the change. I realized I hadn’t been inconvenienced at all. That my daughter was instead witnessing kindness and patience and being taught this valuable lesson by a complete stranger; furthermore, I realized that I too needed a refresher on this lesson.
When the woman was finished, the employee began ringing up my items and thanked me for my patience. I then thanked him for teaching us patience and kindness by his treatment of that elderly woman. And although my timeline for target was askew, when he was finished I pushed my cart through the store trying to find the manager. I wanted her to know of the employee’s, kindness and patience, and how much it meant to me. After tracking her down and sharing the story with her, we left Target with a cart full of consumable items, but what is more a heart full of gratitude for such an invaluable lesson.
If you are ever in the Glendale Target, give Ishmael a smile and a nod. The world could use more people like him.
The post quickly went viral, with more than 30,000 shares, and it brought positive attention to Gilbert’s good deed. A father of one, Gilbert says he saw the elderly woman get “all worked up” as the line behind her grew, and was just doing his job, according to New York Daily News.
“It just feels good to be recognized for good work, but this isn’t something new,” he said.
“I treat all customers the same, the way I want to be treated. It felt good because that’s the kind of example I want to be for my daughter.”
Sources: Sarah Owen Bigler/Facebook, New York Daily News / Photo credit: AWM